I kissed a Girl (and liked it!)

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May 9 2009, 5:51 pm
geek/nerd/etc isn't defined by personality, it's defined by interests
May 9 2009, 6:03 pm
Lol, I've had that goal for a little over 2 1/2 years. I'm 15.

The problem is that my standards are too high... (or said girl that I asked out is a complete prude; I didn't know that at the time).
May 10 2009, 11:42 am
But what is part of your personality if not interests you take? That defiantly makes up part of who you are.
May 10 2009, 11:43 am
Jeff8500 wrote:
Lol, I've had that goal for a little over 2 1/2 years. I'm 15.

The problem is that my standards are too high... (or said girl that I asked out is a complete prude; I didn't know that at the time).

You are 15 sir, give it sometime,and don't rush too fast to get intimate with another person, the world doesn't change because of it.

May 10 2009, 5:09 pm
Trosh Kubyo wrote:
You are 15 sir, give it sometime,and don't rush too fast to get intimate with another person, the world doesn't change because of it.

But the situations effecting either people do.

Just because the change isn't global, doesn't mean it's not local. =)
May 10 2009, 7:37 pm
I didn't start even dating until early high school. I didn't get down with the horizontal monster mash until my early 20s.

Sex and everything is awesome, but it's a bad idea to rush into anything too quickly without giving it a little bit of thought first.

Or maybe I am just too damn old school.
May 10 2009, 7:39 pm
Probably, I started when I was fifteen. I would have preferred seventeen though.
May 10 2009, 8:18 pm
I was about in a similar boat as you genjura...But, anybody here regret NOT taking advantage of havin sex with a woman? No one said the job would be easy but nice guys don't seem to get the credit they deserve..0_0
May 11 2009, 8:09 am
Mecha Destroyer JD wrote:
I was about in a similar boat as you genjura...But, anybody here regret NOT taking advantage of havin sex with a woman? No one said the job would be easy but nice guys don't seem to get the credit they deserve..0_0

Girls don't want nice guys*. They don't necessarily want assholes, but it's pretty common knowledge women in general don't like the "nice guy", especially one they can have as a friend and not have to put out for.

*- This is sometimes the case. I went to a party with a couple friends, and one of them was being, well, an asshole to this girl. She came over to us(the friend was somewhere else) to tell us that our friend was "a fucking prick" and hat she wanted to "fuck him". Because I was drunk I didn't realize the magnitude of that statement at the time.
May 11 2009, 9:44 am
Disturbed Puppy wrote:
Mecha Destroyer JD wrote:
I was about in a similar boat as you genjura...But, anybody here regret NOT taking advantage of havin sex with a woman? No one said the job would be easy but nice guys don't seem to get the credit they deserve..0_0

Girls don't want nice guys*. They don't necessarily want assholes, but it's pretty common knowledge women in general don't like the "nice guy", especially one they can have as a friend and not have to put out for.

*- This is sometimes the case. I went to a party with a couple friends, and one of them was being, well, an asshole to this girl. She came over to us(the friend was somewhere else) to tell us that our friend was "a fucking prick" and hat she wanted to "fuck him". Because I was drunk I didn't realize the magnitude of that statement at the time.

Yeah, like I told Fizzy a couple months ago, The Game by Neil Strauss is a great book that illustrates this point. Also, I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell by Tucker Max.
May 11 2009, 3:58 pm
Disturbed Puppy wrote:
Mecha Destroyer JD wrote:
I was about in a similar boat as you genjura...But, anybody here regret NOT taking advantage of havin sex with a woman? No one said the job would be easy but nice guys don't seem to get the credit they deserve..0_0

Girls don't want nice guys*. They don't necessarily want assholes, but it's pretty common knowledge women in general don't like the "nice guy", especially one they can have as a friend and not have to put out for.

*- This is sometimes the case. I went to a party with a couple friends, and one of them was being, well, an asshole to this girl. She came over to us(the friend was somewhere else) to tell us that our friend was "a fucking prick" and hat she wanted to "fuck him". Because I was drunk I didn't realize the magnitude of that statement at the time.

I actually figured most of that the hard way. Except instead of going out with an asshole, she went out with one of my good friends.
May 11 2009, 5:09 pm
I don't know, I've always been a pretty nice guy (IRL - HAH). I never seemed to have a problem. One girl though I wasn't into her cause I didn't try to cop a feel soon enough, but we quickly fixed that misunderstanding.
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