I Just heard from my sister in Oregon that the Funeral home in Ill contacted her regarding my fathers ash's.

My Father died September 21 2005, they cremated him, I Had to sign something etc, and I Guess they still have his ash's!, I didn't know this, but They say they can't keep his ash's forever.

Before after he died I Had no money to recieve his ash's, so I Thought they'd dispose of his ash's by spreading them over a garden"This is what I've been told".

They want to know what to do, so i'm gonna somehow, someway, muster up the $50 to recieve his ashes, so I can give him a proper fairwell, but I'm against odds here, one of my Brothers would think this is stupid, and I Think my sister thinks that to, "There not my fathers kids, we only have the same mother", but I Dont care what they think or say, It doesn't even concern them anymore.

anyways, I'll try to muster up the $50.

Thanks for Listening to me blab about personal things :)