The whole RP concept behind FF games is that you're taking the role of a character (or more) and following them through the story. Its still roleplaying, even if its not the kind you like.
It may be roleplaying but it isn't gameplay so to call it a roleplaying game is stupid. But since so many people are doing it the label RPG is meaningless as far as classification is concerned since it's used to describe just about anything. Everything is now a subcategory of roleplaying(ie Adventure RPG, Action RPG, FPS RPG, Stratagy RPG, Tactical RPG, ect). This has nothing to do whether or not I like the game it's about mislabeling games as something they are not.
A very story-based game is basically a novel. Just a graphical format of interactive fiction with a ton of combat added in order to extend play time and reduce frustrating puzzles.
The combat and puzzles are the actual gameplay though not the story.
Haven't you ever played any interactive fiction?
Those choose your own path books are much closer to being roleplaying games than any Final Fantasy since the choices you make are actually choices that control the outcome of the plot.
A very story-based game is basically a novel. Just a graphical format of interactive fiction with a ton of combat added in order to extend play time and reduce frustrating puzzles. Haven't you ever played any interactive fiction?