Mar 22 2003, 5:27 am
In response to Deadron
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Yeah, but there is a difference. The girls like the guys, and if I don't like guys (in that way) , I have a reason to be offended. If a gay man came up to me and said "Hey baby, how you doing?" I would just tell them I wasn't into that stuff. But if a gay man came up to me and said "Hey baby, how you doing?" and grabbed my ass, I sure as hell would hit him.
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If everyone was openly bisexual, then there wouldn't be any problems about fear of people with differant sexual orientation, and they would be double as much choice for everyone. :-p
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So... the fact that a girl likes some guys means it's okay for any guy to come up and grab their ass?
The problem here is the whole guy/girl dichotomy... when a PERSON you don't happen to be attracted to, of either sex makes a move on you, you should react the same way regardless of their sex. The important thing isn't that they're a guy or a girl. The important thing is, are you attracted back? That might be based on their sex, but it also might be based on height, skin tone, personality, social status, etc... Let me put it this way: if you only like tall girls, would you beat the hell out of a short girl who dared to put a physical move on you? | |
Yuugi wrote:
Well I was just wondering... ..........o.O | |
certainly, and there will be less rape victims and more hospitalized stalkers ;)
world is a better place | |
Well that eliminates some excuses too :P
Like the "I'm sorry, billy. But I'm really a lesbian and not attracted to men at all" excuse if everyone was bisexual. | |
thats kind of contradicting. Cultures and Nationality almost always come hand-in-hand. I still cant come to terms with a religion turned culture myself. after all being nomadic for the last somewhat millenia there was, overnight. (laughs) a Jewish community.
I can see only bad things coming with that. not by them specifically but by uneducated minds who hate without valid reason. And no area is without racism, it hides its face. In jokes, if not literally underground | |
if you were bisexual, you wouldnt hate to be, that much is certain. Its like right now, do you hate liking women? Are you repulsed by their naked body? even if it is an attractive one?
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but thats not how everyone was made. If that were meant to be, everyone would be born straight..
You are either straight bisexual, or homosexual at birth, but there is no way to know personally because you cant comprehend your feelings until you can learn to understand. There are people who have children and suddenly realize they are gay.. this isnt an escape for them. They just realized one day that they now understand the feelings they were having. You see, many people mistake attraction for love in many cases, people marry out of attraction and never realize they didnt LOVE the person. I cant put it in words because whenever I focus on what true love is I cant phrase it. I know I have true love with who Im with, and equally she loves me. I know beyond a doubt that I am straight, and my confidence in that is what allows me to tolerate others. | |
Thats not true for most people. Most people deside to become gay after a certain age because of past experences. Normaly a bad breakup or rejection. I know many who have done this. I know a few girls that have done this to guys. It's not normaly something your just born with. It's something you develope over time.
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I would be flattered if a short girl put her hand on my behind, even if I'm biased and only like tall women, that just means I'm good looking to some girls. On the other hand, if a guy did it, I would feel rather uncomfortable, considering I'm not interested in guys and might even become defensive about being attractive to men. It could be the same way with people who have same sex preferences. Lexy, if you were to have your bottom grabbed by a man, what would you do? Of course the answer will most likely be different from that of a homosexul male(That is, having that male's behind grabbed by a women....), but cross examination can be done at a later time.
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Long winded thread over a relatively simple topic.
Whether his (neutral 'his') reasons for blocking someone are right or wrong, moral or immoral, privately owned servers are private property by law(See AOL v. Cyberpromo). In short, "His Server, His Rules". The rest of this is just a flame war waiting to happen. | |
Scoobert wrote:
Thats not true for most people. Most people deside to become gay after a certain age because of past experences. Normaly a bad breakup or rejection. I know many who have done this. I know a few girls that have done this to guys. It's not normaly something your just born with. It's something you develope over time. There's substantial scientific evidence that what you said just isn't true. Homosexual people are naturally attracted to other people of their same sex. Usually, they fake an attraction to the opposite sex to fit in with the predominantly heterosexual society, out of fear of persecution. I do think it's about 50/50 regarding choice versus genetics, myself, but science says otherwise. | |
Thats what I was trying to get at, Im pretty sure, Lexy, that if a woman came on to you and cupped your ass you'd probably blush and get acquainted. I dont know you personally so theres no way for me to know for certain.
Being in a relationship as I am I would be somewhat offended if either sex came on to me. but at all time I would be offended if a man did it. | |