Just for the record, we actually do have to sign something that says that at the beginning of the year in my school.
Same here. Education is a human right, but it doesn't say it has to be a good education... if the school kicks you out for being nasty to another pupil, so be it; find a different school that accepts such pupils.
Thats simply not the case! Arguments based on the ASSUMPTION that hate exists mutually, that there is capability or intent to harm should be dismissed at the base.
No one knows if the kid in question is violent. No one knows if the hate is mutual. No one knows if the kid would ever, in real-life beyond the anonymity and/or freedom of the internet EVER say much less do something even remotely linked to it.
Now had the kid in question harassed the person IRL or done something on school property, sure, then theres GROUNDS to believe.
Harassment on a personal MySpace is about as *thin* evidence as you can get. The school *suspects* something, what I'm saying is suspecting it and acting on a very very very slim suspicion without a shred to back it off is -wrong-
I've had people over to my house together who I knew didn't get along that well. I've had one of them state that they hated the other person and that they wanted to beat them up.
Has something ever happened ? No.
Do I suspect something would ever happen ? No.
You've already upped them to 'potentially violently opposed individuals'. Now you've even added the girl into it! How would I feel being accused of something like this even if I wrote some crap on a MySpace ? Violated. Completely, utterly violated. I'd give the school hell for it, too. If I want to vent on a MySpace, I will - Does that mean I'd *ever* act on it ? No.
Then you have grounds to act. Let me turn that around:
What if BECAUSE of this, the kids that got kicked out / suspended cause harm.
They didn't. They had no evidence supporting the kid in question was violent, they had no evidence supporting that the kid would ever act on it, they had no evidence supporting that the kid might have an unstable mental state.
Had they brought someone in to evaluate it and a state professional thought the kid was in danger of harming others, THEN you can say they knew it was a possibility.
Posting on a MySpace makes it no more a possibility than me pulling out a gun right now and blowing the head off my danish teahcer.
I'd fault the school if they didn't do the following:
1) Bring the kid in, talk to him. Mention that someone found his MySpace disturbing and how he felt about it or if he had any intentions to act upon it.
2) Look at the kids behavior in school
3) Bring in someone to talk to the kid and assess his mental state
What if the schools suspension now causes violence and much more hatred than was previously present? What if the suspension FUELS future problems not prevents them ? What if it made the kid think in ways he never had before. What if it made him feel wronged, violated ?
What if, because of this, the kid acts in a way that causes harm to others. Would you blame the school ? Because suspending someone does NOTHING to alleviate danger. *At all*.