You could be stressed, or what ever the case it is. Im not sure your even able handle your own community as is. Pretty sure why is that 40% player-base of "COSAB" are mods/admins. Half of these people don't really even bother playing, enforce rules, or even help you. Most of them just abuse,get away from anything take control of shit.
In my point of view I don't really see you caring about others suggestions improve the game, but so what some people suggestions could be good or just plain stupid.
To the point remove all the staff members, or repick the staff team who should have verbs, and IT SHOULD BE THE ONE WHO ENFORCES RULES AND TAKES THINGS IN MATTER OF HANDS,EVEN HE SHOULD BE HELPING YOU. Further more, you should add character disable/enable if the character highly bugged so people can be avoid being banned or having any issues, hell even make actual jutsu disable/enable system.
Lastly, you should only let your self(Zerok) have unban or even someone you trust have it.