If you don't want to be there, then don't go!
I think he means he wants to be there, but he really should not be there at this point in time. So if he does want to be there, but shouldn't. Then he should not go, but he wants to. Wait I'm not even making sense.
But it is not up to the admins of Chatters to prevent you from feeding your 'addiction' to Chatters - we are not an addiction-prevention group in that sense.
It is up to *you* to control yourself, not us. If you don't want to be there, then don't go!