I suspect that in the future (if this isn't the case already) routers will disable UPnP by default due to the same kind of concerns that led to the widespread institution of firewalls and security protocols. I know that my last two routers have had this off by default. Maybe in 2006 this wasn't the case.
What routers are you buying? Cheap ones?
That said, there are other superior options to avoid port-forwarding, considering that our design already has games connecting to the hub. We probably could implement a hole punching setup using the hub for the initial relay (a persistent proxy is obviously not realistic and would be inefficient anyway). I will be honest and say it is not high on the priority list though because, frankly, it's a lot of work and I don't think it's that important.
Hah saw that coming, why couldn't you of just replied you know 2,4 years ago?
That said, there are other superior options to avoid port-forwarding, considering that our design already has games connecting to the hub. We probably could implement a hole punching setup using the hub for the initial relay (a persistent proxy is obviously not realistic and would be inefficient anyway). I will be honest and say it is not high on the priority list though because, frankly, it's a lot of work and I don't think it's that important.