I have a lot of friends on my pager, almost 300 I believe. Most of the relationships I have with those people are pretty shallow. Regardless, I may talk with any of them at any time. It's fairly unpredictable. Still, it's a bit of a hassle to look through all of these contacts I rarely speak with. On my MSN messenger, I also have a lot of friends. However, I'm able to weed out the people I consistently talk with and put them in a "favorites" section of some sort. Something like that would be nice in the BYOND pager as opposed to going through all of those contacts and deleting them. The upside to this would be that I can keep those non-member friends (which far outweigh the member friends) and still allow them to talk with me, while have my more commonly talked-to friends at the top in a separate section.