In response to GokuDBZ3128
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su·i·cide Audio pronunciation of "suicide" ( P ) Pronunciation Key (s-sd)
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1. The act or an instance of intentionally killing oneself.
2. The destruction or ruin of one's own interests: It is professional suicide to involve oneself in illegal practices.
3. One who commits suicide.
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I see the verb part, but most of them say noun.
In response to Artekia
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Oops, I guess you are right, my bad. =/

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In response to GokuDBZ3128
Eh, it can probably be interpreted both ways.
Only grammar nazis would complain. =P
I'd say both are right.

But we're getting off topic. <_<
In response to Divine Apprentice
Thats just plain dumb.
In response to Artekia
Some kid dies and you guys are debating the definition of suicide?

Oh dear. =/
In response to Sniper Joe
Sniper Joe wrote:
Thats just plain dumb.

Showing some respect for that kid, who had mental and social problems, would be better than just acll it "dumb".

O-matic
Well, this thread looks too angsty and long for me to read it all, but it boils down to this in my mind: If it's a person who plays Runescape, nothing can suprise me.

Here's the Jack Thompson perspective (and the one I tend to believe in): Runescape is one of hte only places where the most jack[stuff]-brained moron (not that this kid was one; it's just highly likely) can be "on top" simply by sheer volume of time spent in the game. A person with no other assets, aspirations, or happiness can, by simply devoting himself entirely to the game, build wealth, however meaningless. You know these people - they are the epitome of the word "loser". So, say somebody invests their whole life and self-worth in their online character. If the online character is suddenly gone (friend changed the password just to be funny, say), the real-life person becomes acutely aware of his worthlessness. His options seem pretty clear to me.

Of course, I don't mean to condemn video games. I condemn complulsive video-gamers, which abound in inane games like Runescape that exist only to entrap such individuals. Runescape is to compulsive gamers as a Vegas casino is to compulsive gamblers.


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Poor guy. He's exactly the compulsive gamer type I'm talking about.
In response to PirateHead
Runescape, in my opinion, is something to play when you beat all your other computer games.

--Vito
In response to PirateHead
I'm certain you could replace Runescape with any other MMORPG and your statement wouldn't be any different. :P
ouch that sucks video games r gonna be the end of mankind now
In response to PirateHead
I don't see how you can come to that assumption PirateHead, let's say this kid has a bad life, the internet has become the place he turns to. Games are his only friend because maybe he just doesn't fit in with others. So he comes online and spends his time in runescape, in runescape he is the boss, the king, a place he can be happy at and pass the time. Now, one day all this is taken away from him, he's got nothing left. How would you feel?
In response to Elation
Do you know how often people die? I'm not going to get upset unless it actually affects me.
In response to Game sabre
How is that not exactly the same thing I wrote?

  • Game sabre wrote:

    let's say this kid has a bad life, the internet has become the place he turns to. So he comes online and spends his time in runescape, in runescape he is the boss, the king, a place he can be happy at and pass the time.

    PirateHead wrote:
    A person with no other assets, aspirations, or happiness can, by simply devoting himself entirely to the game, build wealth, however meaningless.

  • Game sabre wrote:

    Games are his only friend because maybe he just doesn't fit in with others.

    PirateHead wrote:
    You know these people - they are the epitome of the word "loser".

  • Game sabre wrote:

    Now, one day all this is taken away from him, he's got nothing left. How would you feel?

    PirateHead wrote:
    So, say somebody invests their whole life and self-worth in their online character. If the online character is suddenly gone (friend changed the password just to be funny, say), the real-life person becomes acutely aware of his worthlessness.



Game sabre wrote:
I don't see how you can come to that assumption PirateHead

Anything you still can't see? Maybe you should turn your monitor contrast up, or open your eyes.
In response to PirateHead
PirateHead wrote:
A person with no other assets, aspirations, or happiness can, by simply devoting himself entirely to the game, build wealth, however meaningless.

Which is like most any MMORPG or a whole string of other games which literally millions of people play daily. I'd class *very* few games if ANY online game where 'wealth' of some sort is built up as based on anything outside of time. In fact, I can't think of a single one. Know any, off-hand?

You know these people - they are the epitome of the word "loser". So, say somebody invests their whole life and self-worth in their online character. If the online character is suddenly gone (friend changed the password just to be funny, say), the real-life person becomes acutely aware of his worthlessness. His options seem pretty clear to me.

Since when has personal wealth been the only worth to someone just because they spend their whole life on a game ? I happen to know plenty of avid gamers who devote virtually 16 hours a day on MMORPGs, still value things such as family, friends/similar extremely highly and definately wouldn't even think of taking any action against their own life if the game ended.

Commiting suicide over a virtual game suggests illness, not 'norm' - You can link problems in the psyche with avid gaming, but that doesn't mean the two go hand in hand nor does it make it the norm at all. I spent roughly 10-12 hours a day in EverQuest 1 for a period of a few years, and you could safely say that was my life. I stopped the game at some point because of outside factors and moved on, without a problem.

Of course, I don't mean to condemn video games. I condemn complulsive video-gamers, which abound in inane games like Runescape that exist only to entrap such individuals. Runescape is to compulsive gamers as a Vegas casino is to compulsive gamblers.

Or Lineage 2 - Or any game with timesinks ? What you do with the game is up to yourself; Condemning people with an interest in games or games which have repetetive actions in which time can benefit you and is a large factor of it (Virtually every computer game in existance) seems a bit...over the top. Poker can be played abusively or in the spirit of good fun - Being a heavy poker player doesn't mean you are a compulsive gambler.
In response to PirateHead
Just that from my perspective it seems as though you have a negative view towards what he did, or what his life was like as if it was his fault.
Re-direct all suicidal emo people to me. I am the 'master' at making them not do it.

I'll let in to some secrets.

You have to take a guess, to be honest, as to whether they're ACTUALLY suicidal, or just attention seeking. That's the hardest part basically. If they're attention seeking, just have a right fucking go at them and then act like you care. They'll be fine within about 10 minutes of the start of topic.

If they are actually suicidal, you need to talk some sense into them. A few methods I use (Believe me, I know sooo many emo people) are:
1] Threatening to come and Hug them (lol works most of the time)
2] Explain to them that the world fucks everyone over, he/she is not the only one, and that he/she's selfish for thinking the way he/she does.
3] Give them things to do; for example, turn your webcam/voice chat on and talk to them, they really appreciate it in the end.

And for the record, nobody I know personally has ever commited suicide; but nearly all of them have tried.
In response to Alathon
Hey, Alathon, you're preaching to the choir here. I am a pretty responsible gamer and poker player, and I also admit to having been on some major gaming binges - I've spent weeks in a row playing video games in the past.

We both know there's a different between "healthy", "fun" gaming and the sort that destroys lives and families. If you don't think the poker table has ever ruined somebody's entire world, you're naive. When I play poker, I have $X I'm going to spend. I've decided to spend that much money, period. Sort of like going to a theme part that charges $50 to enter. I'm paying for the fun, and if I walk away with money it's all the more fun. I know people for whom the experience is entirely different. They'll bring loads of money, and play until it's all gone or everybody else is done playing. It gets really, really bad when the person starts betting things other than money - his property, his investments, etc. That's not fun gaming - that's gaming compulsion. That is, as you say, sickness, not the norm.

All MMORPGs are somewhat guilty of facilitating compulsive gaming. That's part of the allure, that's what keeps you playing, that's fun. Runescape is, in my opinion, worse than most. It doesn't have "a few" timesinks. It is timesinks. The post wasn't meant to be a condemnation of MMORPGs, or even of just Runescape. I'm just saying that the kid may have been a compulsive gamer whose game life was worth far more than his self worth.

Alathon wrote:
I'd class *very* few games if ANY online game where 'wealth' of some sort is built up as based on anything outside of time. In fact, I can't think of a single one. Know any, off-hand?

Nope. That's a twofold game element, though. It's fun for most gamers, and it's dangerous for compulsive gamers.


Here's where the Jack Thompson thing comes in again: Casinos are recognised as dangerous, unfair, and exploitive. However, adults are free to squander or spend their money any way that they like. Video games, however, are often not played by adults. This story equates, to me, a 14-year-old who lost everything on a hand of poker and killed himself. And having known somebody was in that exact situation, I have no lack of sympthy for people like that.

I just want to put this story in a different context.
In response to Game sabre
I have a negative view towards what he did. Nothing is worth your life. Nothing.
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